They're threatening family members

Threats against family members represent serious escalation that requires immediate response. Whether physical, emotional, or financial threats, this behavior cannot be tolerated regardless of addiction involvement.

Types of threatening behavior:

• Physical threats or intimidation
• Threats to harm themselves if family doesn't comply
• Threats to other family members including children
• Financial threats or blackmail
• Threats about family reputation or secrets

Response strategy:

• Take all threats seriously regardless of addiction status
• Document threats with specific details and dates
• Involve law enforcement when threats suggest potential violence
• Protect vulnerable family members immediately
• Do not negotiate with threats—respond with predetermined consequences

1. Document all threatening behavior with specific details

1. Develop safety plan for family members at risk

1. Involve law enforcement for credible threats of violence

1. Establish clear consequence: "Threats end your access to this family"

1. Follow through consistently to break the threat pattern

Threats often escalate when initially challenged—this tests your resolve. Consistent response to threats typically reduces their frequency because they lose effectiveness. Many families find that ending threat tolerance motivates genuine treatment consideration.

911 for immediate threats of violence

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline if threats include self-harm

East Point Behavioral Health: (855) 887-6237 - Family threat response planning